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In Reference To... "Getting Out of Dodge"
Introduction Bad date? Get out of Dodge. Toxic workplace? Get out of Dodge. Awkward family dinner? Time to get out of Dodge. "Get out of Dodge" is an American idiom meaning to leave a place or situation quickly, usually to avoid danger, trouble, or an uncomfortable situation. Sometimes it can be gussied up with additions like "Get the hell out of Dodge." But why Dodge? Why not any other car? (Get out of Lincoln? Get outta Volvo?) Why not any other town? And how did one fronti
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What 11 Episodes of Will Bowman's "Art of the Interview" Podcast Taught Me About Humans
In this post, I examine the key takeaways from 11 episodes of Will Bowman’s The Art of the Interview podcast. Each episode provides valuable insights into communication, human behavior, and the nuances of conducting effective interviews. These lessons offer practical strategies for improving both your interview techniques and your ability to engage in meaningful conversations, making it a must-listen for anyone serious about mastering the art of dialogue.
Apr 2811 min read


In Reference to... "Gaslight" and Gaslighting
Explore the origins of 'gaslighting,' from Patrick Hamilton’s 1938 play Gas Light and its film adaptations to its lasting impact on psychology and everyday language. Discover how this chilling story of manipulation transformed into a term we now use to describe emotional abuse.
Apr 146 min read


In Reference To... The Dewey Decimal System
Wondering how the Dewey Decimal System can help your writing? Learn how it organizes research and helps your creative flow. Thank you Melvil Dui!
Jul 8, 202510 min read


Self Care for Writers: Your Body is a Temple
Feeling stiff after writing? Here’s how to keep your body happy with smart posture tips and easy movement breaks.
Jun 24, 20259 min read


From the Source: Cultivating Patience with Gardeners
What writers can learn from gardeners: patience, rhythm, and trusting creative growth—even when you can’t see it yet.
Jun 12, 20259 min read


In Reference To... Thomson vs. Thompson
Why Thompson and Thomson aren't the same name — one letter, a world of difference. Etymology, identity, and linguistic curiosity.
Jun 10, 20255 min read


Self Care for Writers: Your Safety Net of Support
Find your essential self-care network for writers—fellow writers, family, and trusted professionals like therapists, barbers, and more!
May 20, 202511 min read


In Reference To... "Dollars to Donuts"
Unpacking the quirky idiom "dollars to donuts"—its origins, cultural flavor, and why pastries made the perfect punchline.
May 13, 20254 min read
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